Christian Author: Nancy W. Boyer

Memories of my Mother


She would have been 99 years old on December 6th.  This blog is in the honor of my Mother, Alta.

What does one say about a life that was lived on this earth for 93 years?  My Mother was a lovely lady who grew up in North Carolina.  She was Alta Ellis West Barker Bishop.   Such a long name, but each part of the name was almost a life within a life.  As Alta Ellis, she was the daughter of a farmer in N.C.  Her Grandfather was a country doctor.  Alta grew up with five siblings.  Now there is only one of them with us today… my Uncle John who is in his 90’s and celebrating a birthday this week. ( This year he was still playing golf!)

There are so many details in remembering the life of my Mother.

  • After graduating from high school at the age of 16, she left home to pursue a career in hair design and care.
  • She married and had her only child at the age of 21.  (That was me.)
  • Alta was a patriot. During WWII, she worked in a munitions plant to help the war efforts.
  • Always beautiful and glamorous, she opened her own hair styling business to give other women the same opportunity.
  • During those years as a single parent, she worked hard to support me and better our lives.
  • Two of her husbands died from illness and Mother always kept strong when facing adversity. I have tried to learn this value from her in some of my own difficulties.
  • As an older woman, she lived with my husband and me for a number of years and was a loving Grandmother to my children and proud to be a great grandmother.

We only have one birth mom. Alta was the one who gave me life.   She saw me through some difficult times… never blaming or demanding…letting me, as an adult,  make my choices for good or for bad.  Perhaps that is why I have followed the same policy with my own children.  In the end, I would never have knowingly hurt her.   This is why I honor her today with these few memories for they are too many to count.

Thank you, Mother, for all that you have meant to me and to our family.    I pray that my  soul may be happily united with yours when the time comes.  I miss you.

Slide show of Alta 

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These words may describe her best: caring, consistent, giving, genuine.  Just before her death, she asked to take Holy Communion for she was ready to meet God.  We should all live our lives so that we will have this peaceful transition from this life to the next.

Probably her favorite scripture verse was John 3:16     “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whosoever believed in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”

A dedicated Christian, my Mother, Alta, wanted others to know the love of Christ that she knew…and the peace and joy knowing Him brings.   We lift up her memory and the Cross that she cherished.

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