Christian Author: Nancy W. Boyer

Jesus and Self-Importance

hand to hand

We are in the middle of the Season of Lent…a time of reflection, repentance and waiting for the great and glorious Easter Day.   Having recently attended an event with educated, talented and, yes, sophisticated people,  I was struck by the attitude of a person I knew to be a regular church-going person…a professing Christian.   It began as a friendly conversation that moved clearly into a belief in self-importance and frankly, snobbery.  The person mentioned that they had left a certain congregation because “the people just didn’t have our same social class…mostly trailer park people.”

I came away wondering what Jesus would have thought about “trailer park people.”  Many of the people we know, especially in the mountains that we visit each summer, might fit that category of housing…small places, double and single wide trailers, but they are some of the nicest people I know. Some of their dwellings may be humble, but they are definitely down to earth, courteous, loving and caring about others….the salt of the earth.  If this person, that I mentioned above, had the opportunity to sit down beside one of my friends in a small cafe and really get to know them,  she would find out what we know…they are are truly real  people!

In fact, these are some of the very people that Jesus went out of His way to seek out.   They weren’t the wealthy or the highly educated…or even the most moral.  Most were not self-righteous or condescending about others.  They did, however, have people who  refused to socialize with them.  The woman at the well, who had many husbands and was then living with someone other than a husband, could not understand why Jesus, a Jew,  was speaking to her as a Samaritan.   Yet, He never spoke down to her as if she was not worthy of God’s love.  Most Christians believe that simply giving a drink of cold water in His name is the same as giving it for Christ.

Giving a drink of water

How often modern day people…even Christian people…lift themselves up on a pedestal, thinking of themselves as better than others.  I think it is time that all of us take a hard look into our hearts and see if any of these words apply to us:

  •  sanctimonious
  • superior
  • holier than thou
  • egotistical
  • artificial
  • snobbish
  • smug.

When speaking of others or refusing to reach to others, because of our own self-importance or superior feelings,  is certainly  not following the example of Christ even if we profess to be a Christian.   We were not called to be a Christian by elevating ourselves above others.   Ultra-sophistication can severely limit the joys in life and the people that He would bring into our lives because we believe that others do not quite make the grade.

We have been told that there is level ground at the Cross.    Even the mother of the sons of Zebedee missed the mark when she asked for her sons  be able to sit directly next to Jesus when He came into his kingdom.  Why would she feel that they were any better or more important than others that followed Him?   Jesus left it up to His Father in Heaven to make this decision.   He also talked about those who wanted to be “great…shall be a servant.” (Matthew 20:26)

Helping hand

Think about it as you approach people in your walk of life.  Those who think of themselves too highly may end up being rebuked by our Lord, as were His disciples.

For me personally, I’m looking forward to sitting with my friends who may live in humble circumstances …hearing their delightful stories and being enriched by their lives… and hopefully to enrich theirs.

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