Author, Artist, and Christian Speaker N.W. Boyer

Confidence

The word “Confidence” means many things to different people.  Somehow in just saying the word, it seems STRONG and ASSURED.  Even writing those words in all caps makes me feel energized.

There are few things in life for which we would put our full confidence. There may be a few people that we are close to or in some cases, we actually put our entire life in their hands. (The pilot who flies your plane for example.)

For some, confidence has never been part of their being.  It is a word out there for the famous or the rich…not the ordinary person.  YOU ARE WRONG…if this is your thought for we are promised a great deal of confidence through a faith in Jesus Christ.  (from the New Testament…Philippians 4:13 shown below.)

Confidence

There are other scriptures that are just as powerful.  (from the Old Testament, Deuteronomy 31:6)   Now we don’t have to go so far as to tattoo it on our bodies as some may do…unless that is your thing….but we can keep these words in our hearts and minds daily.  Remember that God knows what is in your heart and just thinking it becomes a prayer to Him. Never leave Us

The word confidence comes in every language in some form.  Here are a few:

Hebrew:   mibtach: confidence  Original Word: מִבְטָח
Japanese: “Self-Confidence”.. use kanji word “自信(じしん-jishin)”          Spanish:  (trust)  la confianza (f)   I have every confidence in you  Tengo entera confianza en ti.

Here are some of the words that are associated with confidence:

words of confidence

Looking those over, you may say, “Oh, that is all well and good…but I have very little motivation. I’m no genius.  My courage level left a long time ago…and I certainly can’t say I am or have been a real success in all areas of my life. ” 

 All that you said there is human weakness. We all experience it one way or another.  Young people may feel they haven’t had the opportunity for some of these things.  Older people may look back and wish they had done things differently.  Life definitely has its ups and downs. The past is finished and can’t be undone.  The present is what we have and much of the future depends on what we do with the present.

Here again is where we depend on faith.  The Apostle Paul wrote the following about himself and his belief in what God wanted of him.

“But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”   (2nd Corinthians 2:9)    The term “boast” here is not the meaning we think of today, but one of telling or acknowledging…not puffing out the chest in pride.

The Grace of God is His power to help when we have no power.  We call this in English “to be gracious”…and God’s love is certainly gracious.

There are other things that are believed about confidence.  It is often believed that someone who is outspoken, forthright and even belligerent at times has real confident.   A person like this is often trying to cover up for the weaknesses that he/she actually have within.  There is the fear of letting anyone know, so being loud and forceful is the cover-up.   My friend, we have all known people like this.  Do not give them the honor of believing they are truly confident.  Inner-strength is not always seen from the outside. 

“In quietness and trust is your strength.” Isaiah 30:15.

J.R.Miller wrote in The Strength of Quietness …” quietness never can come through the smoothing of circumstances, so that there shall be nothing to trouble or irritate the spirit. We cannot find or make a quiet place to live in—and thus get quiet in our own soul. We cannot make the people about us so loving and sweet—that we shall never have anything to irritate or annoy us. The quietness must be within us. Nothing but the peace of God in the heart—can give it. Yet we can have this peace—if we will simply and always do God’s will—and then trust Him. A quiet heart—will give a quiet life!”

people on railroad

Yes, CONFIDENCE is found deep in the heart. Sometimes unknown things around the corner may cause you concern.   Even though you may not know where you are going or how you’ll get there, with Christ you will NEVER WALK THAT PATH ALONE.  He will give you all the confidence you need and lead the way if you will pray and ask Him to do this for you.

Another way to find your own confidence is to do something for others to find theirs. Look at your abilities and use them for the purpose of good.  It will definitely come back to you.

Teen Helping elderly with confidence

Teen from Royds Hall Community School helps elderly with confidence in shopping

VIDEO  (Turn up sound)

 

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