N.W.BOYER…Christian Author

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TOUGH WORDS

A close friend of mine sent me the writing below and ask that I pass it on. Just before we celebrate the 4th of July, our great Independence Day, I am happy to do so. They are definitely “tough words.”

As we look back at what it cost to free ourselves, as a nation, from England, in order to gain independence….our American flag stands for all the freedoms we enjoy and all that it has cost since then. This includes the freedom of speech…for those who speak out for or against a certain action.

The following are not my words, but I believe they speak the feelings of many Americans who love their sports and the players, but not some of their actions or attitudes. You be the judge.

“TO THE NFL (NATIONAL FOOTBALL LEAGUE) and ITS PLAYERS:

If I have brain cancer, I don’t ask my dentist what I should do. If my car has a problem, I don’t seek help from a plumber! Why do you think the public cares what a football player thinks about politics? If we want to know about football, then depending on the information we seek, we might consult with you, but even a quarterback doesn’t seek advice on playing his position from a defensive tackle!

You seem to have this over inflated view of yourselves, thinking because you enjoy working on such a large scale stage, that somehow your opinion about everything matters. The NFL realizes the importance of its “image” so it has rules that specify the clothes and insignia you can wear, the language you use, and your “antics” after a touchdown or other “great” play. But somehow you and your employer don’t seem to care that you disgrace the entire nation and its 320 million people in the eyes of the world by publicly disrespecting this country, its flag, and its anthem! The taxpaying citizens of this country subsidize your plush work environments, yet you choose to use those venues to openly offend those very citizens.

Do you even understand what the flag of this country means to so many of its citizens before you choose to “take a knee” in protest of this “country” during our national anthem?

You may think because you are paid so much that your job is tough, but you are clueless when it comes to tough.  Let me show you those whose job is really tough.

You are spoiled babies who stand around and have staff squirt GatorAid in your mouths, sit in front of misting cooling fans when it’s warm, and sit on heated benches when it’s cold. That’s not “tough” that’s pampered.

You think that you deserve to be paid excessively high salaries, because you play a “dangerous” game where you can incur career ending injuries. Let me show you career ending injuries!

You think you that you deserve immediate medical attention and the best medical facilities and doctors when injured. Let me show you what it’s like for those who really need and deserve medical attention.

You think you have the right to disrespect the flag of the United States, the one our veterans fought for, risked limbs and mental stability to defend, in many cases died for. Let me show you what our flag means to them, their families, and their friends.

You believe you are our heroes, when in reality you are nothing but overpaid entertainers, who exist solely for our enjoyment! Well, your current antics are neither entertaining nor enjoyable, but rather a disgrace to this country, its citizens, all our veterans and their families, and the sacrifices they have made to ensure this country remains free. You choose to openly disgrace this country in the eyes of the rest of the world, yet with all your money, still choose to live here rather than in any other country. People with even the slightest amount of “Class” will stand and respect our flag. Where does that put you? You want to see heroes… here are this countries heroes!

You can protest policies, the current government, or anything else you choose, that is your right. But when you “protest” our flag and anthem, you are insulting the nation we all live in and love, and all those who have served, been injured, or died to keep it free. There is nothing you can do or say that can make your actions anything more than the arrogance of classless people, who care about themselves more than our country or the freedoms for which our veterans and their families have sacrificed so much, to ensure you have the “right” to speak freely. Our country is far from perfect, but if you can point to any other country where your freedom and opportunities are better than they are here, then you just might want to go there and show respect for their flag!”

VIDEO “GOD BLESS AMERICA” Turn up sound


Remembering Our Children

 

More of our children have been lost to a mentally ill teen when he opened fire in another of our American schools.   The sadness and loss of beautiful people with great talents is hard to comprehend.

We dedicate this blog to them…from the smallest child in elementary school to our teens and young adults in high schools and colleges and the teachers/adults… along with their grieving families and friends. 

Consider these statistics and it does not include mass shootings at social clubs or other locations such as theaters, restaurants, businesses, health facilities, homes, streets or churches.   Some who read this may not want to be reminded, but it is an extremely sad truth about the state of mental health in our nation.

COLLEGES AND HIGH SCHOOLS:

  • 10 Killed – May 18, 2018 – Santa Fe High School in Santa Fe, Texas.
  • 17 killed – February 14, 2018 -Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida.
  • 9 killed – October 1, 2015 Umpoqua Community College in Roseburg, Oregon
  • 32 killed – April 16, 2007, Virginia Tech in Blacksburg, VA
  • 9 killed – March 21,2005 – Red Lake High School, Red Lake, Minnesota. 
  • 13 killed – April 20, 1999 – Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado.

ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS

  • 27 killed – December 14, 2012 – Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut.  20 children, ages six and seven, and six adults, school staff

(There could be more that we did not find listed.)   credit to CNN

TOTAL  117 young people and faculty in just a few years. Too many gone…who had so much to give to the world, but didn’t have a chance to grow up.

 

VIDEO:   This performance is by talented young people. (credit: Web Family Music)

Turn up sound.

IN MEMORY OF ALL THOSE LOST IN OUR SCHOOL’S CLASSROOMS. 


Let your heart be at PEACE

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It would be easy to listen and see the catastrophes in the world and become distressed…even asking “Where is God?”

Today we are going to focus on PEACE within our hearts.   Take a few minutes to listen and reflect….and pray for those who have lost so much.   The people of an American small-town, Sutherland Springs, Texas, are in our prayers.

GOD HAS NOT FORGOTTEN YOU

 

some of the children murdered in Sutherland Springs TX church 2017

Children of Sutherland Springs Church:  Ryland Ward with Joann Ward in the back and sisters Emily (8) far left, Ryland Ward (5) 2nd from left, Brooke (5) 2nd from right, Rihanna (9) far right. (online Courtesy photo)

In God’s Holy Word, a warning about harming a child:

Matthew 18:6 – But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone was hanged about his neck, and he was drowned in the depth of the sea.
Romans 12:19 – Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.    (International version)

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(picture by H. McLaughlin)

Now rest your minds and soul:   VIDEO  Turn up sound

 


A Prayer on 9-11 and the Aftermath

Today I would like to share a prayer from 2008 where the Twin Towers stood in New York City.

After reading the prayer, scroll down below to see what the people of New York have accomplished in the past years.   Thanks to Yahoo News photographer Gordon Donovan who has taken many memorable images from photographs of 9-11 and found the exact spots today, we are able to see what the American people can do after such a tragedy.

 

Trinity Church Cemetery 9-11

Trinity Church Cemetery 9-11

 

 

Trinity Church cemetery today

Trinity Church cemetery today

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“O God of love, compassion, and healing,
look on us, people of many different faiths
and traditions,
who gather today at this site,
the scene of incredible violence and pain.
We ask you in your goodness
to give eternal light and peace
to all who died here
the heroic first-responders:
our fire fighters, police officers,
emergency service workers, and
Port Authority personnel,
along with all the innocent men and women
who were victims of this tragedy
simply because their work or service
brought them here on September 11, 2001.

We ask you, in your compassion
to bring healing to those
who, because of their presence here that day,
suffer from injuries and illness.
Heal, too, the pain of still-grieving families
and all who lost loved ones in this tragedy.
Give them strength to continue their lives
with courage and hope.

We are mindful as well
of those who suffered death, injury, and loss
on the same day at the Pentagon and in
Shanksville, Pennsylvania.
Our hearts are one with theirs
as our prayer embraces their pain and suffering.

God of peace, bring your peace to our violent world:
peace in the hearts of all men and women
and peace among the nations of the earth.
Turn to your way of love
those whose hearts and minds
are consumed with hatred.
God of understanding,
overwhelmed by the magnitude of this tragedy,
we seek your light and guidance
as we confront such terrible events.
Grant that those whose lives were spared
may live so that the lives lost here
may not have been lost in vain.

Comfort and console us,
strengthen us in hope,
and give us the wisdom and courage
to work tirelessly for a world
where true peace and love reign
among nations and in the hearts of all. “

Pope Benedict XI–Prayer at Ground Zero
New York, 20 April 2008

Before and After Pictures of 9-11 and today 

TWIN TOWERS REPLACED TODAY BY ONE WORLD TRADE CENTER AND MEMORIAL

TWIN TOWERS REPLACED TODAY BY ONE WORLD TRADE CENTER AND MEMORIAL

TWIN TOWER 9-11

TWIN TOWER 9-11


Common Decency……

Common decency is the requirement of accepted or respectable behavior expected of human beings.   The head of EVERY nation should be demanding that Mr. Putin show common decency toward the families of those who died in the terrorist attack over Ukraine.

MR. PUTIN, RELEASE THOSE BODIES TO THEIR HOME NATIONS AND FAMILIES.  Leave Ukraine and go home to rebuild your nation’s reputation….or are you the same as your predecessors?

Update as of July 23, 2014:    Finally, some of the remains that were found in the crash site in Ukraine have made their way home.   However, even today, the pro-Russian separatists shot down more aircraft.  Mr. Putin has still not ask for the military to stop the fighting.  Because the site was so badly decimated , the critical evidence and probably still some of the remains are yet to accounted for.

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